In response to the post "When someone close passes away, we reflect" the late Kak Ruby had left this comment in my Facebook. We will remember to live, Kak Ruby. May Allah be merciful on your soul. Al-Fatihah. ~ start ~ Ruby Ahmad at 11:02am on November 18th, 2008 Losing anyone close, any one we love, is painful, but no one word or any number of words, can describe the exact excruciating piercing pain! That bad. Really that bad!! It will make anyone stop in their tracks & just lose motivation & this I would seriously say dangerous time for anyone. One can be easily de-motivated... ...whence, in truth, one should be motivated to continue life, for the love we have for our dearly departed. To continue doing good things, & to continue praying for our dearly departed. I remember Red in 'Shawshank Redemption' said: 'Get busy living, or get busy dying' Of course we must get busy living, & let knowledge of the inevitable (birth & death) only to spu...